"The most important things I will be asking of you will be the hardest. And I am sorry that I have to insist upon them. The first is trusting those children. The second is to keep most of your help subtle an behind the scenes. There is much we can do for them from back here, so long as they aren't aware of it. Bit by bit those children are shaping who they are. Who they will be. And we need to trust them enough to allow it. That said, there are many ways we can still help. But as the adults it falls upon us to be subtle where they cannot be."